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9 September 1985 merupakan tarikh yang tidak dapat dilupakan dalam hidup saya. Tarikh inilah saya diijab kabul dengan suami tercinta Othman bin A-Karim di sebuah tanah asing bernama Toledo Ohio. Benarlah firman Allah dalam surah Ar Rum ayat 21 yang bermaksud “Dan di antara tanda-tanda yang membuktikan kekuasaanNya dan rahmatNya, bahawa Ia menciptakan untuk kamu (wahai kaum lelaki), isteri-isteri dari jenis kamu sendiri, supaya kamu bersenang hati dan hidup mesra dengannya, dan dijadikanNya di antara kamu (suami isteri) perasaan kasih sayang dan belas kasihan. Sesungguhnya yang demikian itu mengandungi keterangan-keterangan (yang menimbulkan kesedaran) bagi orang-orang yang berfikir”. Perjalanan bahtera kami selama 27 tahun ini telah melahirkan tiga orang putra dan 2 orang puteri secara “berselang bunga”. Pada 25 September 1986, anak sulung lelaki yang dinamakan Anas dilahirkan. Nama ini dipilih sempena nama sahabat Rasulullah, Anas ibn Malik. Anas dilahirkan di Alor Setar, Kedah ti...

Salam, Sudah lama saya tak update blog ni....Bukan tak ingat ..selalu ingat nak update tapi ....susah nak tulis alasan disini sebab banyak sangat alasan kalau nak ditulis. Anyway..untuk kali saya akan menceritakan tentang cuti. Sebagai pensyarah di IPG, cuti kami adalah seperti cuti sekolah. Cuma, pada cuti semester kedua kami diberi tambahan 1 minggu lagi cuti tambahan. Ini bermakna kami mendapat 3 minggu cuti pada semester ini. Sedihnya..saya belum lagi mendapat cuti yang sebenarnya. Kenapa? Pada minggu pertama cuti, saya masih sebok menyiapkan kerja-kerja seperti menanda kertas peperiksaan dan mengajar KDC. Pada minggu kedua pula, saya dikehendaki menghadiri Bengkel selama 4 hari di Hotel Summit USJ. Manakala, pada minggu ketiga pula saya dikehendaki menghadiri satu lagi bengkel yang lain di Hotel Empress, Sepang. Minggu hadapan semester baharu bermula. Selain daripada menguruskan pendaftaran pelajar baharu, saya juga dikehendaki menghadiri satu lagi mensyuarat di MElaka dan Pu...

Vietnam Part 2: Cuchi Tunnels Slideshow : BushroLimuna’s trip from Kuala Lumpur , Wilayah Persekutuan , Malaysia to Ho Chi Minh City , Vietnam was created by TripAdvisor . See another Ho Chi Minh City slideshow . Create your own stunning slideshow with our free photo slideshow maker .

Vietnam 2011 Part 1 Slideshow : BushroLimuna’s trip from Putrajaya , Selangor , Malaysia to Ho Chi Minh City , Vietnam was created by TripAdvisor . See another Ho Chi Minh City slideshow . Create your own stunning free slideshow from your travel photos.

1.) Use your ‘Fitnah’ (beauty and overtures of allurement) to win the heart of your husband. All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with.   Use the beauty Allah SWT has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband. Dress up for your husband at home. Wear the colours and clothes that he likes to see you in and use makeup, perfume, jewellery - in short, whatever it takes to be attractive to him. From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and bracelets and worn pretty dresses - as described in the Qur’an. Continue this tradition as a wife. 2.) Be sensitive to his moods, feelings and needs. For example, don’t start complaining or burden him with problems as soon as he comes home; rather, welcome him and make him feel good to be home. Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a dinner prepared with care, children clean and sweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what would this do to his love...

1.)Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasulullah SAW would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.    2.) Use the cutest names for your wife. Rasulullah SAW had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.   3.) Don’t treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to ‘bug’ him. Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.    4.) If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! T...

Happy Ever After Salam, got this interesting story in my e-mail today... A love story with a touchable ending..  When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. A g ain I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?  I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!  With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she co...